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ScreamFree Parenting
Aug. 15th, 2010 08:29 pmScreamFree Parenting: raising your kids by keeping your cool
Hal Edward Runkel
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Parenting is not about children, it's about parents.
The greatest thing you can do for your kids is learn to focus on yourself.
Emotional reactivity is our worst enemy when it comes to having great relationships.
Emotional reactivity has the uncanny ability of helping to create the very outcome you're hoping to prevent.
Wrong model: If you are responsible for your children, then you have to figure out how to program them to make the 'right' choices. And you need to do it quickly. You have to learn the right techniques to get them to think, feel, and behave according to your definition of 'good'... If your child ends up 'doing the right thing', then you've raised a robot. But if your child ends up thinking and acting for himself, then you've raised a rebel.
ScreamFree model: You are responsible to your children... for how you feel, think, and behave towards them. ( Read more... )
Hal Edward Runkel
Всю книгу целиком можно прочитать по ссылке в гугл-букс.
Parenting is not about children, it's about parents.
The greatest thing you can do for your kids is learn to focus on yourself.
Emotional reactivity is our worst enemy when it comes to having great relationships.
Emotional reactivity has the uncanny ability of helping to create the very outcome you're hoping to prevent.
Wrong model: If you are responsible for your children, then you have to figure out how to program them to make the 'right' choices. And you need to do it quickly. You have to learn the right techniques to get them to think, feel, and behave according to your definition of 'good'... If your child ends up 'doing the right thing', then you've raised a robot. But if your child ends up thinking and acting for himself, then you've raised a rebel.
ScreamFree model: You are responsible to your children... for how you feel, think, and behave towards them. ( Read more... )
