On Corporal Punishment
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mommyroxМало-мало, конечно, вот здесь в гугл-книжках нашлось из книги о телесном наказании и последствиях, которое оно оказывает на детей. Но кое-что вполне на цитаты пойдет. Жаль, что основная информация "за кадром", цифры статистики собранной по корреляции телесных наказаний с депрессиями, самоубийствами, тем, что битый ребенок вырастал в жестокого мужа и т.д.
Beating the devil out of them: corporal punishment in American families and Its Effects on Children
Murray Arnold Straus,Denise A. Donnelly
Corporal punishment has many consequences; the irony is that most of these consequences are the opposite of what the parents think they are achieving.
Most parents use corporal punishment to stop a child from misbehaving and to make him or her well-behaved. While that may be their intention, the evidence in this book indicates that spanking and other forms of legal corporal punishment are more likely to block that goal. The immediate effect of corporal punishment may be to stop the misbehavior, but the long-term effect is to increase the chances of worse behavior and other problems, including impaired learning and delinquency; and later in life, depression, child abuse, wife beating, and other crimes.
"The effectiveness [and side effects] of punishment is dependent on a variety of factors, including the timing and intensity of punishment, the nature of the relationship [between the parent and the child], the consistency with which the punishment is administered, and the amount and type of verbal explanation that accompanies the punishment."... Despite the many other things that enter the equation, Parke concludes that "...physical punishment is generally unjustified and alternative techniques are both more humane and effective." That statement was made in 1977.
An article in the June, 1993 Redbook magazine "The Ten Worst Discipline Mistakes" (Eberline, 1993) illustrates the change. Spanking is not among the ten. However, there is one brief paragraph that says: Thought spanking and slapping may halt misbehavior temporarily, over the long term physical punishment will backfire. A kid who's smacked doesn't learn self-control; he learns fear - and that it's OK for a bigger person to hit a smaller one.
The difference between spanking and other disciplinary strategies is that, when spanking doesn't work, parents do not question its effectiveness. The idea that spanking works when other methods do not is so ingrained in American culture that, when the child repeats the misbehavior an hour or two later (or sometimes a few minutes later) parents fail to perceive that spanking has the same high failure rate as other modes of discipline. So they spank again, and for as many times as it takes to ultimately secure compliance. That is the correct strategy because, with consistency and perseverance, the child will eventually learn. What so many parents miss is that it is also the correct strategy for non-spanking methods.
Еще того же автора (одного из) Behind Closed Doors: violence in the American family Murray Arnold Straus,Richard J. Gelles,Suzanne K. Steinmetz. Меньше вырезано, больше информации, но не конкретно по физическому наказанию родитель->ребенок, а вообще по насилию в семьях - муж/жена, взрослые дети/престарелые родители, драки и поножовщина между сиблингами и т.д.
Beating the devil out of them: corporal punishment in American families and Its Effects on Children
Murray Arnold Straus,Denise A. Donnelly
Corporal punishment has many consequences; the irony is that most of these consequences are the opposite of what the parents think they are achieving.
Most parents use corporal punishment to stop a child from misbehaving and to make him or her well-behaved. While that may be their intention, the evidence in this book indicates that spanking and other forms of legal corporal punishment are more likely to block that goal. The immediate effect of corporal punishment may be to stop the misbehavior, but the long-term effect is to increase the chances of worse behavior and other problems, including impaired learning and delinquency; and later in life, depression, child abuse, wife beating, and other crimes.
"The effectiveness [and side effects] of punishment is dependent on a variety of factors, including the timing and intensity of punishment, the nature of the relationship [between the parent and the child], the consistency with which the punishment is administered, and the amount and type of verbal explanation that accompanies the punishment."... Despite the many other things that enter the equation, Parke concludes that "...physical punishment is generally unjustified and alternative techniques are both more humane and effective." That statement was made in 1977.
An article in the June, 1993 Redbook magazine "The Ten Worst Discipline Mistakes" (Eberline, 1993) illustrates the change. Spanking is not among the ten. However, there is one brief paragraph that says: Thought spanking and slapping may halt misbehavior temporarily, over the long term physical punishment will backfire. A kid who's smacked doesn't learn self-control; he learns fear - and that it's OK for a bigger person to hit a smaller one.
The difference between spanking and other disciplinary strategies is that, when spanking doesn't work, parents do not question its effectiveness. The idea that spanking works when other methods do not is so ingrained in American culture that, when the child repeats the misbehavior an hour or two later (or sometimes a few minutes later) parents fail to perceive that spanking has the same high failure rate as other modes of discipline. So they spank again, and for as many times as it takes to ultimately secure compliance. That is the correct strategy because, with consistency and perseverance, the child will eventually learn. What so many parents miss is that it is also the correct strategy for non-spanking methods.
Еще того же автора (одного из) Behind Closed Doors: violence in the American family Murray Arnold Straus,Richard J. Gelles,Suzanne K. Steinmetz. Меньше вырезано, больше информации, но не конкретно по физическому наказанию родитель->ребенок, а вообще по насилию в семьях - муж/жена, взрослые дети/престарелые родители, драки и поножовщина между сиблингами и т.д.
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